After debating it with myself and seeing how much the other lady likes me, I’ve decided to stick with her 🙂 I must admit I was pretty selfish. I wasn’t clearly thinking. Now I understand. I just don’t have the heart to abandon her all the sudden. She probably won’t forgive me if I did it to her 😦 I’m going to be a big man and confess my weakness. I’m going to ask for her forgiveness. I hope she will give it to me.
I’m sure she will be very faithful to me 🙂 I’m sure we’ll have an awesome sauce family 🙂 Yes for sure 🙂 Maybe having two or three children to brighten up the lonely household. I want my future wife to love and protect our future children. Not too over protective, of course. I want the children learn from their own mistakes. Nothing like a rock solid family of five. I don’t even have to worry about her command of English either 🙂 That’s because she is intermediate level and this is good for me. Communication is very important to me. I just can’t live without it.
I’m not sure but I think she is coming here to this country in late April. I sure hope she tells me her specific plans. I want to give her a big hug when I see her 🙂 I sure hope she lets me put my arms around her 🙂 I want to gently caress her short hair with my fingers. I want to tell her I am serious about getting hitched in the near future. I also hope she agrees with me when I tell her we have to elope because my family won’t agree to this marriage. Is this romantic? I really don’t know. But I hope all goes well.
There is another issue on my mind. Misunderstandings. Because my new future wife is very young, I’m sure there will be times I will not completely understand her. I’ll try to be patient and understanding. That’s the best solution. That’s the way. This will be very challenging. No doubt about it. I’m sure we’ll have little disagreements along the way. I hope we can settle it in a civil manner. If she does wrong, I might have to spank her, lol 🙂 We’ll see. What’s really important is we have a stable family. As long we have each other, that’s the only thing that matters.
We can talk about what kind of videos are okay for our children 🙂 I really like to show them the original Gatchaman series. I hope my future wife doesn’t have a fit from the excess action scenes ^^;; I have to talk to my future children about violence. How people shouldn’t resort to it. I just have to watch my future kids carefully. Besides Gatchaman, I want to show my future children Yokai Watch, Anpanman, Crayon Shin chan,the Brave Warrior series, Gear Fighter Dendoh, and finally Seven Deadly Sins when they’re matured teenagers 🙂
While my awesome future kids are just that, I want to spoil them with Japanese toys and books. I’m sure the Japanese books will be much more pricier in the future. But I want to encourage their Japanese reading skills as much as I can. Kanji books when they’re older 🙂 Oops! Forgetting about Chinese, my bad^^;; I’ll get them superb cool educational and fun Chinese DVDs and books too 🙂 I just have to remember to get them the funny awe-inspiring Lego movie in magnificent Mandarin and Cantonese. I surely can’t forget about the impressive Chinese toys and gifts too 🙂
http://www.biculturalmama.com/2015/11/chinese-themed-gifts-kids-100-cash-giveaway.html As for really nifty Japanese toys, I want to get them cute stuffed Doraemon and Anpanman toys. Maybe I’ll give them my Henshin Ginga Spark toy. Even the Ultra 500 series figures. That’s the way to do it. I’m pretty sure.
Here’s four awe inspiring sites that I really like:
http://www.biculturalmama.com/
I love this particular site that is very fascinating:
http://www.chineseholidays101.com/
http://multilingualbooks.com/wp/cartoons/asian/cantonese-cartoons-for-kids/
Then there’s my awe inspiring nostalgic love of hip 80s-90s j-pop music I really adore. I really hope my cute awesome wife doesn’t mind the awesome nostalgic music. I love the Checkers, Akina Nakamori, Yoko Minamino, Yoko Oginome, Kyoko Koizumi, TM Network, Namie Amuro, Fence of Defense and so many others 🙂 I’ll even welcome millenial artist like Jun Shibata 🙂 She has an angelic voice 🙂 She’s so totally perfect.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jun_Shibata
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o7TMjBAn4DQ
Here is a documentary on her :0) In this video, she jus turned 32 🙂 You can she’s really touched. She can’t help herself from crying.
Here’s the part two of her awesome sauce documentary 🙂
The above video is the final part of her awe-inspiring documentary 🙂
I have to tell you I’m very impressed with Jun Shibata’s acting chops. She has very good eye contact and is very comfortable around people. It must be from holding her own mini concerts when she was just starting out. I’m very glad she got experience. Personal experience can’t be faked.
Here is a movie she did in 2007 or 2008 🙂 Orochi horror movie. She was pretty young in this movie 🙂 I’m not sure but I think this is an omnibus of stories. Maybe nine stories. She also sang the song for this lovely eerie movie. There’s a link that’s advertised in this video, but it doesn’t work. Please enjoy the short trailer. Absolutely awesome sauce.
Teaching my future children about Japanese holidays especially Setsubun 🙂 Using marshmallows to throw at the oni 🙂 I really have to find an oni mask for the kids 🙂
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Setsubun
I want to teach my future children Cantonese, English, Japanese, Mandarin 🙂 We’ll use educational videos for those languages 🙂 I’m sure the kids will pick up the languages really fast. How I will envy my own future children because they’re quardralingual 🙂
I want my future children to be smart cookies :0-) Education leads to good job opportunities. I hope my wife isn’t a Tiger Mom^^;; While I can’t stress the importance of good education, they might withdraw from the pressure.
One of the things I worry about is my future children getting bullied. I simply won’t put up with it. I hope when it happens on school grounds, there will be alert teachers on duty. I want them to intercede asap. I pray very hard that they never become victims of an intense bullying case. I surely pray for their absolute success.Yes I will.
I want to raise them the American way. Correcting my future children when they need it. Having time out when they aren’t cooperating. Japanese upbringing is no good. Just let the children do whatever they want to do is no good. I prefer the American way. No doubt about it.
When my future children become young adults, I hope they never bump into their cousins^^;; That would cause real problems. I can’t imagine the mayhem that it would ensue. I sure hope it never happens.
Yes, this is a real adventure for me and my future family. Stay tuned as the mystifying saga continues…
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